The Counseling and Resource Center

Domestic Violence/Abusive Relationship

SAFETY PLAN GUIDE

• Develop a plan with your children
• Arrange to have a place to go
• Make copies of important papers and hide them
• Have available important phone numbers
• Pack and hide an overnight bag
• Put aside money and spare keys

• Call for help (9-1-1)
• Get out if you can
• Bring important items listed above

• Avoid rooms with only one exit
• Avoid the kitchen
• Call for help

• Change the lock, secure doors and windows
• Arrange to have someone stay with you
• Change your phone number
• Obtain a Protection Order
• Notify trusted friends and family

AT THE WORKPLACE, SCHOOL, AND PUBLIC PLACES

• Inform your work, daycare, and schools
• Change your daily routine
• Plan ahead for unexpected contact with the abuser